Ep 196: Why You're Scared of Healthy Love (Even Though You Swear That's What You Want)

Everybody talks about wanting a man who COMMUNICATES, who's HONEST, who CHOOSES YOU wholeheartedly…

Until one actually shows up. And you go running like your f*cking ass is on fire.

If you grew up without a secure attachment, your brain is wired to read insecurity as desirable. Which means your brain basically can't tell the difference between a bear attack and a man telling you he really, really likes you.

Sound ridiculous? Yeah, no f*cking kidding. But it's true. And until you learn how to teach it otherwise, you're going to keep treating every emotionally available man like he's trying to eat you…and not in the fun way.

So. Let's get you recalibrated, shall we?

 

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