Struggling with toddler resistance? This episode breaks down why your child says "no" to everything and how to work with their natural instincts instead of against them.
What You'll Learn
What the "You-Can't-Make-Me" reflex is and why it's actually healthy
Why toddler brains react with automatic resistance
Common triggers (commands, transitions, feeling rushed)
What makes things worse (power struggles, taking it personally)
Practical strategies for daily routines
Key Takeaways
The reflex is developmental, not defiance
Invite cooperation instead of demanding it
Connection is the strongest antidote to resistance
Stay calm and confident—you're the CEO
Give choices to preserve their sense of control
Quick Tips
Replace commands with invitations
Give transition warnings
Pause when resistance peaks
Use collaborative language
Fill their connection tank with one-on-one time
Resources
Toddlers Made Easy
Help! My Child Will Only Poop In A Diaper Waitlist
Toddlers Made Easy, the book
SPONSORS
Acorns Early
Kidsy
