Trigger Warning: This episode contains a reference to sexual assault.
Choosing freedom over fitting in. What if that one decision changed everything? Maxine grew up in an Irish culture where drinking was considered a vital piece of celebration, identity, and belonging, and for years she rode the exhausting cycle of stopping, starting, and negotiating with alcohol. Then she took on 75 Hard for her health, realized people were waiting for her to “be a drinker” again, and found herself craving something deeper than social approval: stability, clarity, and real joy. A sunrise on New Year’s Day became the moment she knew she was done for good. In this episode, Maxine joins Coach Cole to share how she stepped off the rollercoaster, stopped explaining herself, and built a life she genuinely loves—without alcohol.
In this episode, Coach Cole and Maxine discuss:
The cultural messages about alcohol that shaped Maxine’s early relationship with drinking
What it felt like to be able to “pause,” but not truly feel free
Why the mental load of alcohol was the most exhausting part
How 75 Hard became a socially acceptable “pass” to stop drinking
Choosing freedom over fitting in when people push back on your decision
The New Year’s Day sunrise moment that made her say, “I’m done”
Why she identifies as a “zero consumption” person and doesn’t romanticize moderation
How she handles parties now: honesty, boundaries, and bringing her own options
Playing it forward to dissolve cravings and protect her peace
And other topics…
Episode links:
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