Drag queen, singer, and actress Adore Delano ( RuPaul's Drag Race S6, All Stars 2 , American Idol ) joins Nicole to share stories about hooking up with go-go dancers, filming a sex tape she regrets, and her path to sobriety. She opens up about transitioning twice, the facial feminization surgery she underwent, and her current relationship with a trans man Nicole and Adore swap dating lessons, talk about why a healthy relationship can feel so strange, and discuss why an amusement park date is the ultimate compatibility test. Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast Support for this episode comes from Bumble. Start your love story on Bumble - bumble.com #bumblepartner Follow: Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyer X: @nicolebyer Nicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746 This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter , Instagram , and Tiktok . Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .