Discipline. It’s only one word, but it conjures up a multitude of thoughts or memories. In this message, Chip encourages us that done properly, discipline can actually build a strong, positive bond between you and your kids. Case Study #1 – Reuben Hill (Minnesota Report) Summary: The balanced authoritative parent, who gives high support (love) and high control (discipline), typically produces children with high self-esteem, good coping skills, and a positive relationship with parents. Case Study #2 – Hebrews 12 - Christians A.D. 66-70 Summary: Discipline is teaching obedience to God and His Word through consistentconsequences (actions) and clear instructions (words) in an atmosphere of love. Five characteristics of discipline: The necessity of discipline = To deter DESTRUCTION. -Heb. 12:4 The means of discipline = The ACTIONS and WORDS. -Heb. 12:5 The motive in discipline = To express LOVE. -Heb. 12:6-9 The goal of discipline = To teach OBEDIENCE or SUBMISSION. -Heb. 12:9 The result of discipline = Short term PAIN and long term GAIN. -Heb. 12:10,11 Two key biblical concepts 1) Actions : Consistent consequences Seven steps to discipline: Clear WARNING. Establish responsibility. Avoid EMBARASSMENT. Communicate grief. Flick the WRIST. Sincere repentance. Unconditional LOVE. 2) Words : Clear instructions Four ways to use words to bring about correction: Say “no” FIRMLY. CLEAR WARNING of consequences. Use CONTRACTS. Use CONSEQUENCES Broadcast Resource Download Free MP3 Message Notes Additional Resource Mentions Marriage Truth Cards Offer "Uninvited Guests" Resources Connect 888-333-6003 Website Chip Ingram App Instagram Facebook Twitter Partner With Us Donate Online 888-333-6003
