If you’ve ever followed all the parenting rules, read all the books, and still felt your child slipping away, this episode will land deep in your chest. In this raw and honest conversation, Christy-Faith shares the story she’s never fully told—the moment she realized the parenting method she believed was “biblical” was actually building fear, walls, and distance with her child. What followed was a journey of unlearning, healing, and rediscovering what discipline actually means through the lens of Scripture and attachment, not shame. 🛠️ LINKS & RESOURCES Free Homeschooling Resources Find everything you need to simplify and strengthen your homeschool journey: Free How to Homeschool Guide Free 5-Minute Homeschool Style Finder Free Guide - 20 Questions to Kickstart Your Deschooling Adventure Free Sample Homeschool Schedules 👉 https://christy-faith.com/links Thrive Homeschool Community Join Christy-Faith’s online community and create a homeschool that works for YOUR family—plus access the masterclass on socialization! 👉 https://christy-faith.com/thrive Christy-Faith’s List A curated guide to homeschool-friendly service providers, businesses, and colleges: 👉 https://christy-faiths-list.com Christy-Faith’s Latest Book! 📖 Homeschool Rising: Shattering Myths, Finding Courage, and Opting Out of the School System ( Includes an entire chapter on deschooling—the step you can’t skip!) 👉 Get your copy: https://christy-faith.com/book-homeschool-rising ❤️ MENTIONED IN EPISODE: 12 Day Connection Reset Challenge ❤️ 25% off with code CONNECT25 👉 https://christy-faith.com/12-day-connection-reset-challenge-instant-download 🎙️ SHOW SPONSORS BJU Press Homeschool ✔ Flexible curriculum to fit your family’s needs ✔ Biblical worldview and critical thinking built in ✔ Hands-on learning for every grade level Find the perfect fit for your homeschool: 👉 Visit https://www.bjupresshomeschool.com/christy CTC Math ✔ Get 50% off my favorite online math program ✔ Adaptive lessons so kids build confidence at their own pace ✔ Teaching, grading, and testing—all done for you! Start your free trial today: 👉 Visit https://payments.ctcmath.com/purchase/homeschool-discount?tr_id=CF Azure Standard Homeschool-family-owned company dedicated to providing affordable organic, natural, and non-gmo groceries, health, home, and garden products. ✔ All vetted to be free of: Harmful preservatives, food colorings, chemicals, pesticides 👉 Visit https://www2.azurestandard.com/-christy-faith and use code CHRISTYFAITH15 for 15% off your first order Lovevery The Reading Skill Set by Lovevery follows the science of reading, making learning to read fun and confidence-boosting! ✔ 98% of kids improved their reading scores in 6 weeks! 👉 Visit https://lovevery.com/christyfaith and use code CHRISTY10 for 10% off Summit Healthshare Healthcare Plans That Offer More and Cost 40-60% Less Than Traditional Insurance ✔ Keep your doctors ✔ Major Medical & Preventive Care – Including Holistic ✔ $0 Care, $0 Labs, $0 Prescription Programs 👉 https://summithealthshare.com/cf 🎁 FREE GIFT Download this beautiful, ready-to-print notecard! 🔗 https://christy-faith.com/download-thanks-for-listening-gift OTHER EPISODES FOR YOU 👀 Episode 75: Three Phrases I'll Never Say to My Kids Again 🔗 https://christy-faith.com/podcast/three-phrases-ill-never-say-to-my-kids-again-and-why/ Episode 80: Are Homeschool Moms More Patient? 🔗 https://christy-faith.com/podcast/are-homeschool-moms-more-patient/ 🎧 SHOW RECAP ✅ Why obedience isn’t the same as heart change ✅ How “biblical” parenting methods can accidentally feed fear, shame, and sneakiness ✅ The moment Christy realized consequences weren’t shaping character ✅ The difference between punishment (payment) and discipline (training) ✅ Why Jesus’ model of correction centers on restoration, not retribution ✅ What the research says about authoritarian vs. permissive vs. authoritative parenting ✅ How shame shuts down the learning parts of a child’s brain ✅ Why connection + boundaries create the healthiest long-term outcomes ✅ How to rebuild trust and help kids come to you instead of hiding ✅ What it looks like to parent with curiosity instead of control ✅ Why this shift changed the culture of Christy’s home—and her relationship with God You don’t need to parent from fear. You don’t need to rely on shame. You’re allowed to build something different—something closer, safer, and far more effective. 📌 Like, subscribe, and share this episode with a mom who’s questioning the way she was taught to parent. She’s not alone, and this conversation might be exactly what she needs. 💬 What part of your parenting story is shifting right now? Share it in the comments or tag Christy-Faith on Instagram—we’d love to hear. The Christy-Faith Show | Ep. 94
