Send us a text The arrival of three new babies in my extended family has sparked a wave of nostalgia and reflection about the raw truths of early parenthood—those jarring realities nobody adequately prepares you for. Remember when someone first told you "you'll never be alone again" after having a baby? For me, that statement landed like a thunderbolt. As someone who cherished solitude and quiet moments, the reality of motherhood hit hard: working with babies under each arm during conference calls, two-hour bedtime routines, and the complete dissolution of personal space. Yet within these challenges lies the beautiful, messy truth of family expansion—watching your lineage grow and seeing siblings bond despite the exhaustion. Perhaps most surprising is how parenthood transforms marriages. The flood of hormones, sleep deprivation, and differing parenting philosophies create a perfect storm where even the strongest partnerships face unprecedented tension. Add well-meaning but overwhelming advice from family members, friends, and even childless acquaintances who've "read all the books," and it's no wonder new parents feel overwhelmed. But take heart in knowing these struggles are universal and temporary. As one wise family member told me during my darkest moments, "This is literally the hardest part—once you get through this, everything else will be a breeze." Eight years later, I can confirm she was right. My evenings are mine again, bedtime routines have shortened from hours to minutes, and I've reclaimed pieces of my identity I feared were lost forever. Wondering how to survive those early years? Trust yourself. Despite all the advice, you and your partner are the parents. You decide what's best for your child. Your instincts matter more than any parenting book or well-meaning suggestion. And remember—you will find yourself again on the other side of these challenging years, different perhaps, but whole. Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn
