Episode 57 – Shame - Part 2 - Shame, Sin, and the Way Out In this continuation of our series on shame, Jon addresses one of the most difficult and secret struggles pastors face: masturbation. This episode explores: Why masturbation often becomes a form of self-medication for anxiety, loneliness, or boredom. How dopamine, secrecy, and the cycle of shame entangle leaders and believers alike. Why this sin produces such deep shame — from breaking God’s design for intimacy, to grieving the Holy Spirit who dwells within us. Six example stories (pastor, missionary, teenager, husband, pastor’s wife, and leader) that illustrate the real-world struggles many face. The dangerous escalation from hidden habits into affairs — and how sin can spiral out of control. A reference to Jon’s Crashing Lyrics song “Song For All Time” — which illustrates the theme of infidelity across decades — and the upcoming song on faithfulness. Most importantly: how to stop in the “heat of the moment,” and why the path back to grace is the same for every believer — whether you’ve been free for a day or a thousand days. Masturbation promises rest but delivers shame. Jesus promises rest and delivers peace. You don’t need a secret elevator. You need the same Savior. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/pastors-in-recovery--6262503/support . Connect with Jon and find hope for your own recovery journey: 🌐 www.pastorsinrecovery.com 📧
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