Dating today can be a mess, and so much of that mess stems from confusion, uncertainty, and ambiguity showing up in ways that just infuriate us. In this episode, I'm answering four listener dating dilemmas that each capture a different flavor of that chaos, from the planning-phase ghost to the partner whose humor crosses a line to the slow fade that sends you spiraling over someone you barely know. These aren't rare, one-off situations either. I hear versions of these same four patterns constantly, which is exactly why I wanted to break them down together. I'm covering:What to do when a guy keeps initiating dates that never actually happenWhy a plan without a set time, date, and location usually isn't a real plan at allHow to know if you're being "managerial" by helping plan a date, or just being reasonableHow to handle a new boyfriend whose "jokes" cross a real lineWhat it means when a partner says the only way to be with you is to suppress part of himselfWhether to say something when a casual connection's slow responses start to bother youHow much effort is reasonable to expect when you're not looking for anything seriousHow to hold onto your sense of self when someone goes quiet after a great phone callHow to tell the difference between an old trigger and an actual red flag in the momentFor each one, I give you the exact tweak I'd make if I were in your shoes, along with the bigger pattern underneath so you can spot it before it drains you again. My hope is that you walk away from this episode more decisive, less likely to spiral, and a little more convinced that most of this isn't actually about you.THANKS TO OUR SPONSORSEVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE toy or gift card! bbvibes.com/DatingIntentionallyFREE STUFFDating Guides: 90 questions, FAQ, text templates & moreCONNECT WITH MESubmit a dating dilemmaSlide into my DMs on IGWatch the pod on YouTube
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