Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). What does it mean to come home to yourself as a man—especially as a queer man in today’s world? In this powerful and deeply human conversation, I sit down with Cator Sparks, a certified professional co-active coach, lifelong seeker, and GBTQ men’s group facilitator, to explore the intersections of identity, healing, and men's work. From his beginnings as a fashion editor in New York to his calling as a coach after heartbreak and upheaval, Cator shares a journey marked by courage, curiosity, and community. We talk about the essential need for dedicated queer spaces in men’s work—and why they’re not about exclusion, but about belonging, safety, and unfiltered truth. Cator speaks candidly about his experience building sober, sex-free retreats for GBTQ men; his frustration with rising anti-LGBTQ rhetoric; and his deep belief in the resilience, creativity, and joy of queer communities. We go deep into what it means to be authentic in a world that rewards conformity—especially for straight men wrestling with their conditioning—and how the knot in our stomachs can point us toward the work we need to do. Cator also shares vulnerable and moving reflections about his father’s life and death, and the healing power of inner child work. This is a conversation about boundaries, bravery, brotherhood—and the fierce, radiant joy of showing up as who you really are. Themes we cover: Why GBTQ-specific spaces matter in men’s work Healing from homophobia—internalized and cultural Queer joy as resistance Creating spaces without substances, sex, or shame The changing landscape of masculinity and gender norms Intergenerational healing and authenticity Boundaries as an act of self-love 👉 Learn more about Cator’s work: catorsparkscoaching.com 👉 Explore GBTQ retreats: gbtqretreats.com BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs. #Sponsorship #Ad Support the show Get up to 48% off Magic Mind with our link: https://magicmind.com/MANKIND50 Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ : >>>HERE<<< Stay in the loop with powerful figures in the world of Men's Work. Find A Men's Circle Near You: https://mkpusa.org/mens-group With over 1000+ Men's Circles (Virtual + In-Person) worldwide , men are waiting to welcome you into a kind, supportive and safe brotherhood of men. FREE Online Men's Groups are available every week. The Men's Work: https://mkpusa.org/themenswork/ In just three short weeks we’ll give you a solid foundation for moving ahead in your life, and you won’t be going alone. Cohorts Launch Every Month 🎵 Listen To Jim Donovan & The Sun King Warriors: Spotify: Listen Here
