Could You Be FRAMED in Family Court? [338]

So you’re getting out of your emotionally and spiritually abusive marriage (congratulations, by the way, you’re a hero), and you think the hard part is over? Honey, buckle up. This episode pulls back the curtain on what actually goes down in family court and why women like you and me need to step into the CEO role of our divorce process. I talk with Amy Polacko, a woman who’s been through it, wrote a book about it, and now helps other women survive it. We cover everything from strategic silence and choosing the right attorney, to the "he’s such a good guy" nonsense that courts just eat up. Here’s the low-down: You could be framed. Literally. Not metaphorically. Actually framed . So let’s talk about how to not let that happen. Key Takeaways: You must be the CEO of your divorce. Do not—I repeat, do NOT—hand the wheel to someone else and hope for the best. The justice system isn’t always just. Especially if you're a woman who dares to leave an abuser. Document everything and hire smart . Get a coach before you get an attorney. Better yet, get Amy. Abusers have a playbook. And Amy knows what’s on every page. Your “Christian” husband might still screw you over. Faith language doesn’t mean he’s safe. It might just mean he’s scarier. Kids grow up. Even if you lose custody, there’s hope. Connection isn't court-mandated, it’s soul-deep. We’ll talk about what to do if the unthinkable happens. Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question here Related Resources: Check out Amy’s website and get some one-on-one coaching with her. Get Amy’s FREE resource, 10 Divorce Mistakes You Can’t Afford to Make . Get the Proactive Playbook for Divorce or take her course, Divorce Decoded . Read her co-authored book, Framed: Women in the Family Court Underworld . Connect with Amy on Instagram . Go listen to some related Flying Free Podcast episodes, including “ Winning Child Custody & Divorce Battles ” and “ How to Be the Parent Your Child Needs During Divorce .” And of course, consider joining the Flying Free Kaleidoscope where we make education and support for Christian women in emotionally abusive marriages (or making their exit) affordable and life-changing. (Plus Amy is one of our resident coaches!) Amy is a divorce coach and an award-winning journalist who is a domestic abuse survivor. Through her Freedom Warrior coaching business, she has guided hundreds of women out of toxic relationships and empowers women to be the CEO of their divorce. She is a former full-time investigative reporter on television. Amy’s work has been featured in HuffPost, The Washington Post, Newsweek, NBC News, The Independent, New York Observer and Ms. She co-authored the groundbreaking book FRAMED: Women in the Family Court Underworld with Dr. Christine Cocchiola which exposes the gender bias crisis in our justice system